pressured about it. but now, it is like oh, my god. i only have one glass of wine during my pregnancy and we don't have wine in front of the kids and my kids don't watch tv. they play with organic blocks. it is like all right forget it. nobody is fun anymore. >> stephanie: that's true. see, i grew up in that era too. martinis at 5:00 no matter what. >> the sun is almost down, let's start. it is totally fine. >> stephanie: exactly. and plus, like, in fact, just yesterday, it is that whole trying to have a conversation with a friend with a kid. we had a lot of important stuff to talk about. all you hear is -- >> mommy talking now. okay, now, mommy needs a break. it is relentless. >> they never get back to you. last time i talked to you you had stage seven cancer. put that down, billy! stage seven cancer. billy! you're like forget it, i have to go. no one has stage seven cancer.